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rm_robpsf415 27 M
12  Artikelen
Saying No   13-11-2014

How would you go about saying no thanks to someone who is incredibly persistent yet sweet at the same time?


10 Reacties, 105 Bezichtigingen, 12 Stemmen ,3.86 Score
rm_goodsxwithu 53 S
10  Artikelen
Too much   12-11-2014

Saying no just got to be too much now we just ignore profiles that we're not interested in.


4 Reacties, 71 Bezichtigingen, 13 Stemmen ,4.15 Score
buckfuddy39 48 M
3  Artikelen
why bother   11-11-2014

I read a few comments about women politely declining men's advances here on LekkerAfspreken.nl Lekker Afspreken, Echte Sexdating - LekkerAfspreken. After seeing some responses posted on Facebook and other sites, I'm not surprised women say nothing when approached - I've seen a LOT of nasty responses guys have made to a simple, "no".

Things like, "fuck you, you fat cunt"; "you're ugly anyway"; "I'm too good for you anyway"; "why the fuck are you on here ...


12 Reacties, 126 Bezichtigingen, 14 Stemmen ,5.38 Score
superhead1973 52 S
10  Artikelen
No way   09-11-2014

We love the feature that lets us add a message on the IM before we block them.


5 Reacties, 58 Bezichtigingen, 11 Stemmen ,5.22 Score
Using IM   08-11-2014

I find that many simply never respond to an IM request for chat. Is there any etiquette on this matter?


5 Reacties, 108 Bezichtigingen, 9 Stemmen ,4.49 Score
kimdan4fun 41 S
10  Artikelen
Testimonials   07-11-2014

Do you sometimes say no thanks to someone that has given you a testimonial?


6 Reacties, 49 Bezichtigingen, 7 Stemmen ,5.08 Score
To thank or not to thank   06-11-2014

I use to love going on the IM but I rarely do now because all it turns into is a steady stream of vulgar come ons from every jerk ever put on this site. I not only don't say no thanks I ignore them altogether and let them wonder if their IM is working.


6 Reacties, 63 Bezichtigingen, 18 Stemmen ,5.85 Score
prettyinpink838 40 S
6  Artikelen
No   31-10-2014

Saying no has become very easy to say on this site especially with single guys.


3 Reacties, 41 Bezichtigingen, 5 Stemmen ,4.12 Score
rm_3xthefun99 54 S
4  Artikelen
Blocked!!!   21-10-2014

There's no need to feel like you have to answer all these guys, just block them period.


3 Reacties, 44 Bezichtigingen, 11 Stemmen ,4.29 Score
funcouplerus2 41 S
5  Artikelen
No thanks.   15-10-2014

Do single guys realize that most women and couples get hit repeatedly every day with stupid emails from single guys? We have jobs we don't need another one answering all the stupid stuff that comes our way. Oh and here's an idea try writing things that make sense and that don't reek of coming from an 11 year old.


12 Reacties, 77 Bezichtigingen, 19 Stemmen ,4.84 Score
MovingOn001 64 M
7  Artikelen
The Best Way to Respond to "No Thanks" Replies   14-10-2014

Like anyone who has been on LekkerAfspreken.nl Lekker Afspreken, Echte Sexdating - LekkerAfspreken for any length of time and has tried to make contact with someone, I have received my share of "Thanks, but No Thanks" replies. I have been told however, that my response to those "No Thanks" replies is quite different than what most women receive from those kinds of replies.

I am not rude or abusive to the woman who told me "No Thanks". I do not whine or ...


0 Reacties, 68 Bezichtigingen, 12 Stemmen ,4.92 Score
thorped11 42 M
1  Artikel
Ignoring people if not interested or politely declining   11-10-2014

What is the outlook on this? Do people prefer to hear back even if it is not the response they would like to hear or will being ignored also do the job. Also if you have to deal with unwanted attention do you prefer to let them know or simply ignore it and the potential backlash of a "sore loser" along with it?


5 Reacties, 43 Bezichtigingen, 7 Stemmen ,2.53 Score
MorganJ 53 V
1  Artikel
Since you asked...   30-09-2014

As I glanced at the articles on the Saying "No Thanks" page, I noticed that 5/12 of the articles on the first page were all regarding the fact that women here often don't give a polite 'no thank you" when emailed or IMed. I certainly don't expect that posting my reason for not responding to those who contact me will make a dent in the future "why are women so rude" questions, but here goes ...


8 Reacties, 113 Bezichtigingen, 18 Stemmen ,3.81 Score
Why does this seem to be so difficult....   21-09-2014

I can understand that a huge amount of requests are posted on this site especially in the chat rooms & IM, but so many people just don't have the time to reply with a polite "No Thanks", it's almost like everybody is in such a rush or seem to hold themselves in such a high esteem that it's below them to do so (you know who you are people, admit it). I was always brought up to be polite and it's ...


7 Reacties, 84 Bezichtigingen, 12 Stemmen ,1.39 Score
hotasiantaiwan 30 V
11  Artikelen
CAN YOU CHANGE YOUR DIRTY SEX MIND?   08-09-2014

A couple of years ago I was really into nipples. Human nipples in particular (you wanted to take it there). I loved the way my partner’s nips felt up against my skin, and the way mine felt against their man-chest and lips. I loved the sensation and the eroticism of the little weird evolutionary phenomenon. I think my curiosity turned into a playful exploration of all the cool things you could ...


7 Reacties, 119 Bezichtigingen, 22 Stemmen ,4.93 Score
sweetboi1234 28 M
10  Artikelen
avoid shit   04-09-2014

Sometimes u just have to say no wat is for u is for u don't rush life avoid unexpected stuff in like avoid say no


1 Reacties, 28 Bezichtigingen, 9 Stemmen ,2.14 Score
It has to work for both or not at all   04-09-2014

Whenever I talk or chat with someone about meeting, I try to make it very clear that even though it may sound like a match and a hot time ahead, you don't know if it works for you until you meet. Everyone has their own preferences and attractions, I always meet with the agreement that if it won't work for either one, it is a thanks, but no thanks, a handshake, and good luck to you. I am not ...


4 Reacties, 84 Bezichtigingen, 3 Stemmen ,5.39 Score
Ebonyforwhite 43 V
1  Artikel
Do men read profiles at all   02-09-2014

Yes i like both men and women but at this time I'm looking for only women to play with but these men seem to think they can change you mine by saying I need dick if i want dick i will get dick but i want and need pussy no thank you another black men s


8 Reacties, 81 Bezichtigingen, 13 Stemmen ,4.82 Score
rm_KidP09 27 M
2  Artikelen
Saying No   29-08-2014

When someone isn't attractive to you but keeps coming at you how do you let them down easy?


3 Reacties, 45 Bezichtigingen, 5 Stemmen ,3.80 Score
rm_tnhotcock469 36 M
1  Artikel
Being Polite   25-08-2014

I wish that people on this site would try a little to be polite. If somebody sends you a message and you are not interested in them; just respond back and say that you appreciate their interest in you, but you are not interested.

I do not think it is very nice to just ignore their message. Think of it like this: they found you attractive enough to take the time to send a message, you ...


13 Reacties, 108 Bezichtigingen, 25 Stemmen ,2.69 Score
BBWFREAK856 41 V
9  Artikelen
not interested   18-08-2014

Why do ppl constantly message you especially on I.m when you say your not interested and they just keep at it. I blocked this guy and he changed his screen name 3 times just to keep bugging me. Why is im not interested so hard to comprehend? It bugs me with the persistance of some people. I hate to be rude but sometimes thats all that will work.


5 Reacties, 44 Bezichtigingen, 16 Stemmen ,2.25 Score
kittykitty05 48 V
3  Artikelen
The best way   15-08-2014

What's the best way for a girl to tell you that they aren't interested? Do you want a response? Is an explanation needed or is "no thanks" enough? Do guys realize that many will send back a response that mimics the attitude that the interest is given?


7 Reacties, 55 Bezichtigingen, 9 Stemmen ,5.56 Score
BLOG   06-08-2014

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3 Reacties, 13 Bezichtigingen, 3 Stemmen ,3.43 Score
rm_testprem425 43 M
5  Artikelen
NO THANKS   01-08-2014

Strictly speaking "No thanks" would mean the person is not giving you any thanks. With a comma, "No, thanks", means "No, but thank you anyway" or similar


1 Reacties, 21 Bezichtigingen, 2 Stemmen ,3.81 Score
Ways to not say "no"   23-07-2014

If you send someone a friend request and your YIM and then suddenly start ignoring all messages, even those that say "Hey, it's ok if you are not interested, JUST LET ME KNOW, " that is rude. Please just say "Sorry, I am really not interested in pursuing anything further with you." Believe me, most people on here are mature enough to say in response, "OK, good luck, " and move on to the next ...


11 Reacties, 70 Bezichtigingen, 10 Stemmen ,2.39 Score
Wittyneel 52 S
3  Artikelen
Hypocrisy?   12-07-2014

LekkerAfspreken.nl Lekker Afspreken, Echte Sexdating - LekkerAfspreken has been a good platform for like minded people to get to know each other...express themselves. But i guess the reality is very different. Many a times the profiles are misleading. The response one gets is so different that what's in profile. Knowing well that with distance, different priorities and in general the circumstances it would not be possible to always meet in person. The big ...


4 Reacties, 85 Bezichtigingen, 7 Stemmen ,4.06 Score
NuBoyToy4u 38 M
10  Artikelen
just say . . .   08-07-2014

no.

i've already had enough to eat.

thanks though.

k.

bai.


2 Reacties, 13 Bezichtigingen, 3 Stemmen
kcutemilf 38 S
1  Artikel
The Polite No Thank you   05-07-2014

So, here you are on the instant messenger. You log on to see who's chatting, someone flashes across your screen with a hello, you quickly view their profile, you're not interested! What do you do?

Well, from experience that my significant other has had on this site, most people just ignore the other person if they're not interested.

I am one of the types that believe that's not ...


9 Reacties, 121 Bezichtigingen, 28 Stemmen ,6.73 Score
DGator69 57 M
3  Artikelen
Proper etiquette on saying NO   03-07-2014

There are alot of members who get tons of e-mails, flirts and friend requests (especially women) on LekkerAfspreken.nl Lekker Afspreken, Echte Sexdating - LekkerAfspreken, so much that many of them just delete/ignore the sender. The proper way to respond would be to just say "No thanks I am not interested" copy this response to the cursor and paste it when appropriate. If the sender keeps on sending either block or report that person. When you do not respond to ...


6 Reacties, 67 Bezichtigingen, 6 Stemmen ,3.65 Score
No Reply Is a Message Also!   27-06-2014

That's what the blogger wrote on my blog awhile back: "No reply is also a reply." I wonder about that really? I mean, I know it could be, but I also have found that days later after I have made an inquiry with someone by sending them an introductory email, they respond and not always in a negative fashion.

"I've just been so inundated by emails." one sweet lady wrote. Another said she ...


5 Reacties, 40 Bezichtigingen, 4 Stemmen ,4.80 Score