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playhouse40 48 S
2  Artikelen
No Thanks   13-10-2009

How can another person say that they didnt c the sign when a person is no interest n then u shouldnt have 2 hurt some 1 feeling 2 say No Thanks !That person already knows they just dont want 2 accept the facts , no calls, no chat, no time and they cant get the picture mmmmmmmmm They got just leave me alone can they get that Live, Laugh, Love!


2 Reacties, 61 Bezichtigingen, 4 Stemmen ,3.63 Score
SoFloTgirl 61 T
8  Artikelen
Nancy Reagan said it 1st   12-10-2009

Yes she did!


1 Reacties, 32 Bezichtigingen, 0 Stemmen
dirtysexysailor8 28 M
3  Artikelen
i never say no   29-09-2009

no is not in my vocabulary especially when it comes to sex i will always try it atleast once! it is ok to say no but i just never do!


2 Reacties, 78 Bezichtigingen, 5 Stemmen ,0.86 Score
wantotry74 43 M
8  Artikelen
just say so   24-09-2009

I remember old saying that went something like this:treat others the way you would want to be treated...Life's too short for games---don't lead others on.It's just not cool.A simple "no Thanks" should work just fine...


1 Reacties, 48 Bezichtigingen, 5 Stemmen ,2.49 Score
How saying " No Thanks"?   18-09-2009

Hello all,

Many ladies are trying to contact me here... In some I am interest and in other I am not. When you are not interest in someone you can build a real realation, right? or even be honest in your feeling? Is there a way to say No thanks smoothly without hearting her?

thx


1 Reacties, 38 Bezichtigingen, 6 Stemmen ,2.51 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Artikelen
Here's one way !   25-08-2009

Just tell whoever that your seeing someone and you don't want to cheat on them. ...


4 Reacties, 78 Bezichtigingen, 31 Stemmen
1guyneed2girl 36 S
11  Artikelen
too what   10-08-2009

never say never to sex drugs always say no and then u will be safe


2 Reacties, 38 Bezichtigingen, 2 Stemmen ,3.12 Score
BRON13 37 M
7  Artikelen
passing   04-08-2009

whats the best line you used to reject someone


1 Reacties, 72 Bezichtigingen, 4 Stemmen ,3.63 Score
Dickeymo69 47 M
4  Artikelen
What's worse?   22-07-2009

Being horny as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick or guy you can't fuck (for whatever reason) or being horny as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick/guy that won't fuck you?


8 Reacties, 70 Bezichtigingen, 3 Stemmen ,2.45 Score
sync94 49 M
10  Artikelen
Really No Thanks?   21-07-2009

Saying No is not taken lightly by some.Saying No Thanks is a strong suggestion that the person really means the opposite. Men are attracted to women who use the NO word and always confuse the situation by thinking it means YES. For the life of me I cannot understand why? People are the same anywhere you go. They argue about everything then say no. When the opportunity comes for them to say really ...


5 Reacties, 98 Bezichtigingen, 5 Stemmen ,2.82 Score
Doulikefun 53 M
2  Artikelen
When to run away??   29-06-2009

Recently I met up with a lady in Cambridge who seemed on the surface to be a normal, relatively sexy woman. She had a few more tattoos than I was expecting but they seemed tasteful. She was in pretty good shape and it turned out she was a black belt in karate. On leaving the bar where we met I asked is she was ticklish and she said no and dont - I took this to mean please tickle me now, but when ...


7 Reacties, 170 Bezichtigingen, 5 Stemmen ,3.14 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Artikelen
Fatal attraction !   09-06-2009

Fatal attractions can come from just merely saying, "No thanks!"

Have you ever known this to happen to anyone near to you?
...


3 Reacties, 96 Bezichtigingen, 33 Stemmen
rm_tlswordsman 33 M
1  Artikel
Not saying no means no?   02-06-2009

How many of you just leave an email unanswered if you're not interested?

How many of you actually reply to say "No thanks"?


18 Reacties, 173 Bezichtigingen, 12 Stemmen ,3.15 Score
kvv202020 36 V
5  Artikelen
Ok this has been on my mind...   03-05-2009

so i have a general guideline when it comes to guys, i prefer guys between 18 and 26, but it seems that i get more emails and IMs from guys who are over 26...how do i nicely let them down?


9 Reacties, 212 Bezichtigingen, 8 Stemmen ,3.01 Score
How do YOU handle this?   26-04-2009

Let's say you have made a connection here (or on another site, whatever...) and you finally meet. You discover that there is just not a good connection there, or no real attraction... what do you say? How do you handle that situation without hurting their feelings? This has happened to me a couple times, and I never want to hurt someone's feelings, but you also can't pretend there's a ...


11 Reacties, 205 Bezichtigingen, 16 Stemmen ,5.77 Score
the lead on......   17-04-2009

Were all adults here-hence the name 'LekkerAfspreken.nl Lekker Afspreken, Echte Sexdating - LekkerAfspreken'please just be up front and honest-if your not interested just come out and say it.......


4 Reacties, 59 Bezichtigingen, 4 Stemmen ,3.63 Score
ALREADYTAKENAGAI 50 S
1  Artikel
Here is a scenario:   13-04-2009

We, as a couple, choose to play together with women..not necessarily other couples. We get propositioned all the time from couples that want us to come play with them. As inviting an offer as it is, we have more of an interest in playing with the female counter part of the couple as opposed to both of them. We do not full swap, as of yet, but most of these couples want us to "equally" share the ...


4 Reacties, 83 Bezichtigingen, 1 Stemmen ,2.40 Score
wildcatr27 52 V
11  Artikelen
why when we say 'no thank you'?   04-04-2009

Some guys say when they have been told No thank you, well 'your loss'

why is it my loss? if i don't think we match for whatever reason, how can that then be my loss.

It makes me laugh cause I can only assume that they think they are gods gift and that i should be grateful or something. To me a loss is losing someone who dies not someone I am not interested in having sex with. ...


10 Reacties, 142 Bezichtigingen, 10 Stemmen ,2.99 Score
what is it..   15-03-2009

with people who cant take no for an answer? why are there so many nuts out there that think just because you slept with them a couple times you are meant to be together forever?


3 Reacties, 63 Bezichtigingen, 7 Stemmen ,3.80 Score
wildcatr27 52 V
11  Artikelen
why not just accept the response no thanks   11-03-2009

wasn't sure whether to put this in the 'saying 'no thanks' or the rants & raves

So many times I get contacted by the same people who I have said no thanks to as politely as I can.

But yet they still do it and some even then become abusive about it.

One has even called me a 'saddo' today who 'needs a life' because I didn't want to talk to the pictureless, one line ...


6 Reacties, 87 Bezichtigingen, 8 Stemmen ,4.87 Score
rm_hedonist5251 65 S
2  Artikelen
why why no pics?   07-03-2009

After being on this scene on and off for over 20 years we've come to realise its a total absolute waste of time and breath asking people to put SOME kind of pics in profile! Despite us sayin they dont have to be facial or explicit, still they dont! its especialy difficult if you're a standard member and therefore cant access some profiles fully. so that one little pic we CAN see makes ALL ...


7 Reacties, 126 Bezichtigingen, 15 Stemmen ,4.05 Score
c00k132 45 V
3  Artikelen
Sore Losers...   27-01-2009

I had a guy email me with interest of talking and I politely told him he had a great profile, seemed like a nice guy, but I had recently started dating someone/am looking for a girl to join us.

His reply got him blocked by LekkerAfspreken.nl Lekker Afspreken, Echte Sexdating - LekkerAfspreken...

What is the appropiate way to say "No thanks"...if there is one on here?...


7 Reacties, 251 Bezichtigingen, 21 Stemmen ,5.97 Score
When a woman says no   20-01-2009

I'm sorry for all those guys who don't understand the word... NO! When you meet a woman and there's just no attraction and she tells you so. Normally that means one thing leave her alone! Not continue to harass and bother her. It's just creepy and weird to have someone following your every move and having to check up on you after you tell them that you want nothing to do with ...


5 Reacties, 95 Bezichtigingen, 11 Stemmen ,3.54 Score
bigbadwolf72779 44 M
2  Artikelen
Why can men not take a hint   12-01-2009

I'm a straight man. Says right in my profile who I'm lookin to meet. So why is it that gay or bi men still feel the need to contact me and not take no for an answer? I'm curious if women have the same issue with the men on this site be they straight bi or otherwise?


2 Reacties, 72 Bezichtigingen, 6 Stemmen ,3.08 Score
omg... get the picture!   11-01-2009

so as i sit on my computer doing my own thing talking to the random guys that have come across my screen and i wonder if they even have looked at my profile. i have an issue with age cos of how young i am and how i want to find somone closer in age.. i dont understand why older men find it fun to keep trying. listen when a person says no they mean it. just listen and respect!


3 Reacties, 109 Bezichtigingen, 3 Stemmen ,2.94 Score
01717222560 35 M
10  Artikelen
saying no thanks   10-01-2009

saying no thanks


0 Reacties, 23 Bezichtigingen, 1 Stemmen
rm_jessy93550 44 V
1  Artikel
just no   07-01-2009

you know on this website i have so many guys trying to talk to me and it get kinda of annoying when they get persistant and to the point of scary when they end up sending you messages and photos everyday...so please guys if the girl doesnt reply its for a reason take the hint!


2 Reacties, 82 Bezichtigingen, 6 Stemmen ,3.93 Score
Hobo5352758 76 M
1  Artikel
Be Polite and Respond   02-01-2009

One of the things that I've noticed here, and to be honest on every other site is that people don't respond, even to say, "No Thanks." Whatever happened to common courtesy? It doesn't cost anything to simply say, "Not Intrested, " and it will probably keep you from getting repeat messages.


3 Reacties, 91 Bezichtigingen, 8 Stemmen ,4.64 Score
plussize2003 56 M
1  Artikel
Why Waste Time?   29-12-2008

I've been a member of LekkerAfspreken.nl Lekker Afspreken, Echte Sexdating - LekkerAfspreken for 6 yrs now, my question is: Why do the Gold members have to spend money for standards to view their profiles? Then these "cheap-os" have the nerve to "request" VIP be in Gold's profile, to guarantee an reply. I must have spent $400 on helping standards and they reply at least twice, then vanish. Or most woman members claim they're interested(even in your local ...


3 Reacties, 140 Bezichtigingen, 5 Stemmen ,2.82 Score
Co-ed   23-12-2008

I have this colleague at work who's been flirting with me. She doesn't know that I have a girlfriend. She keeps bending forward showing off her cleavage to me. Once at the pantry area, she groped me and told me that she found me attractive. How do I say no without hurting her feelings or embarassing her?


4 Reacties, 112 Bezichtigingen, 4 Stemmen ,4.02 Score