48 yr young, straight male "Newbie" Dominant, NOT "wannabee". New to the Lifestyle after 9 months of research, tuition and understanding. I have a friend who is helping to bring out the Dominant side of Me in the CORRECT way, He has at least 25 years experience in the lifestyle and his approach makes My mind come to the right conclusions, He doesn't "instruct" Me so much as "Guides" Me to the answer, and before that, I had a Gorean Domme tutoring Me for a few months. I also have had an online submissive who IS a TRUE submissive, and not just a "labelled to have fun" submissive!! I have gathered SOOOO much insight of the lifestyle when I was with her, and Yes, I DID provide for her emotional needs however, being online, it was difficult. I dont appreciate "mind games" nor am I a rich man, so if you want an "older guy" for his Money, move onto another profile !!

Mijn Ideale Persoon: I'm looking for friends who can help Me to fulfill My
potential to be the best Dominant that I can possibly be.
As I stated in the above, I already have a Dominant
friend who helps Me greatly, and I am NOT looking to
replace His valuable information, just compare various
thoughts, ideas, Control methods, etc etc, digest,and form an opinion of My own that suits My style.

Now these friends can be either Male or female, but be
aware, I am NOT Bi-sexual, nor am I into "Men" in ANY way !

At the moment, My understanding into the lifestyle has
been into the mental Dynamics of D/s. Ultimately I would like to understand, and obtain "hands on" experience of the Dynamics within the physical side of the lifestyle, How to use a flogger, bondage and ties, etc etc
so if you can help Me in that way, that would be great
experience, But I feel that's expecting too much !! But if I don't ask, I will never know ! Think you can help ?

Wat zijn uw favoriete muzikanten of bands?:
Pink Floyd, Led Zep, Enigma,

Deel één van uw favoriete seksuele fantasieën. Houdt u niet in!:
I'd Love to have a submissive, tied to the bed, and have
several "Toys" available to use, But Firstly,
I would start to kiss, Lick & Nibble my Lady all over,
taking a lot of care to avoid, her Nipples & Her Pussy,
when I came close, I'd lift my lips and tongue above
them, and just gently blow, so she knew I was there, but I
havent given her the Pleasure of contact.... YET.
Thn I would like to just ice around the nipples for a while
before engulfing one of them with my hot mouth, then just
Play with my lady working her into a sexual frenzy, so much
so, that she's trying to break free of her bonds, and
eventually, she does ..................

Welke seksuele activiteiten winden u op?:
Orale seks geven, Orale seks ontvangen, Speeltjes (Vibrators/Dildo's/enz.), Fetisjen, Lichte bondage, Billenkoek, Rollenspelen, Trio's, Slaaf/Meester, Gelijktijdig masturberen, "Thuisfilmpjes" maken, Deelnemen aan erotische fotografie, Voyeurisme, Handboeien/schakels, Blinddoeken

Heeft u ooit gefantaseerd over seks met een beroemdheid? Wie? Wat vindt u opwindend aan hen?:
Too full of their own Importance, for me to worry about !!!

Heeft u ooit cyberseks gehad?:
Ik heb het geprobeerd, maar het is gewoon niet hetzelfde.

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